Portrait of Florence and Pela

Golden Jubilee & Double 70th Birthday

50 Years of Love.
70 Years of Life.

Florence & Pela

Celebrating a lifetime of love, family and legacy.

Sunday, September 6, 20266:00 PM – 11:00 PM

Tunxis Country Club, Farmington, Connecticut

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Explore Their Story

Our Love Story

A Love Story That Became a Legacy

Florence and Pela's story began in July 1975, when they were both just 19 years old—two young teachers standing at the beginning of their lives, with dreams still unfolding and an entire future ahead of them.

Pela fell in love with Florence, but winning her heart was only the beginning. Florence's parents were hesitant to accept their relationship. They believed Pela was simply too young for marriage and hoped their daughter would choose an older man whom they considered a more suitable match.

Florence, however, knew her own heart. She had no interest in the future others had imagined for her. She had chosen Pela.

Eventually, the family elders gathered to consider the young man who was asking to become part of their family. This time, they gave Pela the opportunity to speak for himself.

And when he did, everything changed.

They saw beyond his age. They saw his intelligence, confidence, vibrant spirit, and vision for the future. They began to understand what Florence had already recognized—the character and promise of the young man she loved.

Pela was welcomed into the family.

In January 1976, Florence and Pela began their journey as husband and wife, united by a love they had been willing to believe in even when others had doubts.

Fifty years later, their story is no longer simply the story of two 19-year-old teachers who fell in love.

It is the story of a marriage that became a family, and a family that became a legacy.

From that courageous choice came six children, ten grandchildren, a great-grandchild, and generations connected by the life Florence and Pela chose to build together.

What began with two young hearts in 1975 has become fifty years of love, family, resilience, memories, and legacy.

Florence & Pela — 50 Years of Love. A Lifetime of Legacy.

Married in January 1976

Through the Decades

Their Journey, Chapter by Chapter

From two young teachers to four generations of family.

Florence and Pela as a young couple

July 1975

Young Love

Two twenty-year-old teachers at the beginning of everything, choosing each other before the world agreed.

Florence and Pela around the time of their 1976 wedding

January 1976

A New Beginning

Florence and Pela began their journey as husband and wife, welcomed at last by family and elders.

Florence and Pela with their young children

1980s–1990s

Building a Family

Six children, a home full of movement and laughter, and a marriage steadied by faith and hard work.

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2000s

A Growing Legacy

Children became adults, grandchildren arrived, and the family stretched across cities and generations.

Recent portrait of Florence and Pela

Today

50 Years Later

Fifty years of marriage, seventy years of life, four generations — and still side by side.

Then. Now. Always.

Two young teachers.

One extraordinary journey.

Fifty years later, still side by side.

Florence and Pela about fifty years ago
Then
Florence and Pela today
Now

Family Legacy

Their Greatest Legacy — Family

From the love Florence and Pela began fifty years ago grew a family that now spans four generations.

Children
6Children
Grandchildren
10Grandchildren
Great-Grandchild
1Great-Grandchild
Years of Marriage
50Years of Marriage

Children

  • Preference
  • Uyi
  • Belief
  • Osaretin
  • Quintin
  • Godsgift

Six children, ten grandchildren and one great-grandchild — four generations shaped by the same quiet devotion.

Florence with four of her young children
Pela with his son
Florence with her daughter

The Next Generations

Ten Grandchildren, One Great-Grandchild

The loudest laughter, the fullest tables, the noisiest holidays — the surest proof of fifty years of love.

Florence and Pela surrounded by their children and grandchildren
  • CydneyCydney
  • BeverlyBeverly
  • JadenJaden
  • JordanJordan
  • EthanEthan
  • GraceGrace
  • OsasereOsasere
  • AdrienAdrien
  • AidanAidan
  • KadiaKadia
  • JayonJayon

Jayon · Great-Grandchild

The Evening

Order of Celebration

Golden Jubilee & Double 70th Birthday

  1. 6:00 PM

    Guest Arrival & Cocktail Reception

  2. 6:40 PM

    Call to Order

  3. 6:45 PM

    Opening Prayer & Welcome

  4. 7:00 PM

    Grand Entrance of Florence & Pela and Family

  5. 7:20 PM

    Traditional Kola Nut Blessing

  6. 7:30 PM

    Dinner

  7. 8:00 PM

    “50 Years of Love” Video Presentation

  8. 8:15 PM

    70th Birthday Tributes & Toasts

  9. 8:45 PM

    Interlude

  10. 8:55 PM

    Golden Jubilee Celebration & Vow Renewal

  11. 9:10 PM

    Anniversary Cake Cutting & Champagne Toast

  12. 9:20 PM

    Florence & Pela's Anniversary Dance & Traditional Spraying

  13. 10:15 PM

    Vote of Thanks

  14. 10:25 PM

    Celebration & Dancing

  15. 11:00 PM

    Closing Prayer

Tradition

Honoring Love, Family & Tradition

The evening weaves together faith, culture and celebration in the way our family has always marked its greatest moments.

Breaking of the Kola Nut

A gesture of welcome and communion, offered with prayers for peace, long life and prosperity.

Traditional Blessings

Elders and family speak words of favour over the celebrants and the generations after them.

Golden Jubilee Vow Renewal

Florence and Pela affirm, fifty years on, the promise they first made in January 1976.

Traditional Spraying

Guests shower the couple as they dance — a joyful public display of honour and celebration.

Family Tributes

Children and grandchildren offer toasts and remembrances marking both 70th birthdays.

Music & Dancing

Highlife, jazz, R&B, Oldies, Traditional and Afrobeats carry the evening from dinner into full celebration.

Tributes

With Love, From Your Family

A Message from the Children

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A Message from the Grandchildren

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A Family Blessing

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Celebration Details

Everything You Need to Know

Date

Sunday

September 6, 2026

Time

6:00 PM – 11:00 PM

Venue

Tunxis Country Club

87 Town Farm Road

Farmington, CT 06032

Dress Code

WHITE

Attire

White
Ivory

CHOCOLATE BROWN

Hat / Gele

Chocolate brown
Champagne gold accent

Guest Signature Book

Leave a Message for the Celebrants

Add your name, your wishes, and your blessings to their digital keepsake.

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Celebration Highlights

Guest Photos From the Night

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